Don’t Ever Be a Martyr

After I had been overwhelmed and deeply traumatized
By an unfortunate, aggressive and totally hostile encounter
Someone said to me, “Don’t ever be a martyr – don’t continue to feel hurt.”
That, I felt, was the best advice I ever had.

I have now become stronger and more confident of myself
I’d counter hurtful encounters with indifference
I don’t complain about them
Neither do I write about them.
I’d just let them fly into the winds


ltbs

It is tact that is golden, not silence
Samuel Butler