Me? A Runner-up?

I was a judge at a karaoke contest a few years ago. There was an elderly singer who had won a lot of competitions among the contestants. He was rather arrogant and confident that he would emerge the champion. He was so cocksure of himself that he strutted and swaggered up on stage.
However, he was upstaged by a young man who sang very well, indeed. The cocky, old singer was placed second.
For years after that whenever, I bumped into the runner-up with a group of his friends, he would point me out to them and shout loudly and indignantly that I was the one who had placed him second. His friends would appear surprised that he had not won the contest.

I did not let on to the disappointed man that among the three judges that I had gone against my sense of fair play, knowing fully that the eventual winner was a better singer, but had  given the old fellow top marks because I knew him. Of course, I was out-voted by the other two judges.

I have stopped accepting appointments to be a judge in singing contests after that.

ltbs

Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.

Luke 14:11